“I now wake up each day with a sense of purpose”

With Hayden, there is real movement within each session, something I’d never experienced in traditional therapy.

Previous therapy felt like I was treating myself…. just a lot of wallowing around. Whereas Hayden’s approach is structured and outcome-driven. With him, things actually change!

Jacquie W.
Business Owner

“Hayden’s approach had the biggest long-term effect on me, both when I was working with him and more importantly, long after”

Seeing Hayden was transformative for me, he listened intently and engaged in not only uncovering the real problems but in sourcing the solution, coming at things with a solutions-focused approach.

I’ve worked with a lot of coaches and counsellors and found Hayden’s approach to the biggest long-term effect on me both when I was working with him and more importantly, long after.

Peter N.
Mortgage Broker, Auckland

“Hayden has the ability to understand you better than you understand yourself”

I did 6 sessions, and it was enough to make me change and view things in a new way. After just 2 sessions, Hayden raised enough questions to hit on areas I never would have thought of. He always sends a summary of the session, which keeps you on track.

I highly recommend him if you feel stuck or want to create changes in your life. I intend to do more sessions in the future. Thank you, Hayden!

Rosie F.
Accountant, Sydney

“Hayden is highly EFFECTIVE as a therapist, life coach, and problem solver!”

I had always been reluctant about traditional counselling – feeling it offers more of a venting session rather than real analysis and tools. Not with Hayden!!

He offers the right amount of compassion but puts the emphasis on dialling into the root cause of the issues and how to actually solve them. Hayden kept me on track to be honest with myself, push myself to implement real changes, and gave me the right tools to do so. He more than delivered!

Christine M.
Business Owner, USA

“I was initially sceptical about online sessions, but Hayden completely blew me away!”

Hayden is a master problem solver and gets right to finding the root cause of the problem. He helped me make tangible changes in both my personal and business life.

Working with Hayden was an investment in myself, and the results were better than I could have imagined. If you’re on the fence, trust me… It’s worth it.

Chris B.
Director, Auckland

“Hayden helped me overcome challenges that felt impossible to ever change.”

I reached out to Hayden to help me with multiple areas of my life where I wanted change.
We focused on the current issues and then reached further to uncover the underlying causes from my past that I didn’t even realise were there.

Hayden helped me understand myself and the reasons behind the repeating challenges in my life. I highly recommend Hayden to anyone looking to gain the tools to make real changes in their lives.

Deanna D.
Teacher, Brisbane

“I came to Hayden’s six-week program at a time when I’d hit a plateau — My business was successful but I couldn’t see the next step forward.”

I’d hit a plateau — both personally and professionally — and didn’t have the answers. Hayden helped me uncover the real reason behind what was holding me back. We dug into my values, my self-worth, and the patterns I’d been repeating without realising.

It wasn’t just business. It was my family life, my energy, my self-worth. I now feel more in control, more motivated, and I’m now making decisions with purpose.

Most importantly, Hayden helped me unlock potential I didn’t even realise I had.

Mark S.
Financial Advisor

“Confront real problems and make real changes”

Seeing Hayden was one of the best investments I’ve ever made. I initially approached him with issues like self-doubt and anxiety. Through our sessions, we focused on my past experiences and how they unknowingly impacted my life and relationships over time.

Hayden helped me understand the ‘why’ behind my behaviours, which completely transformed my behaviours and outlook.

One thing I really appreciate is that Hayden tells it like it is, he doesn’t sugarcoat issues, and that honesty is exactly what I needed to confront the real problems and make real changes.

Aston V.
Builder, Nelson

“Hayden helped me take back control of my life and gave me the tools to keep it on track.”

Hayden helped me rebuild my confidence. I now feel able to handle anything life throws at me, and every area of my life has started to flourish because of it.

My partner has noticed the change too, which has had a hugely positive impact on our relationship.
I highly recommend Hayden to anyone considering working with him – you’ll feel the difference almost immediately.

Nikee W.
Student, Sydney

“I feel so much more available again to live my life to the fullest and make the most of every opportunity.”

My experience with Hayden was life-changing. The sessions with him have helped me process so much in a way that traditional counselling has never been able to provide.

Hayden helped me to overcome self-doubt and understand how past events had impacted my life and behaviours. This has helped me immensely in all aspects of my life moving forward. Thankyou Hayden!

Patricia S.
Teacher, Auckland

“Immediate impact on my life… I wish I did it sooner”

I was amazed by the takeaways from each session with Hayden, and the impact on my life was immediately obvious.

In addition to gaining clarity in my values and purpose, we spent time looking at past trauma, and Hayden helped me with the situations that only held bad associations in my mind.

This has helped me let go of past events that were keeping me stuck and negatively impacting my present and future. I wish I did it sooner.

Mike G.
Business Owner, Perth

“I was surprised that we could reach such a profound breakthrough in 6 sessions!”

Having just finished my six sessions with Hayden, I was sure that this was not going to be achievable – however his confidence/passion had me curious.

For me it was past trauma that I needed to work on. His approach was completely different to previous therapies I had tried; it was solid deep work that miraculously re-assembled my broken networks within… it was that successful!

India W.
Graphic Designer, Nelson

“I recommend you call Hayden… especially if previous therapy has not worked”

I found Hayden after trying many different types of therapy to help me make sense of past trauma and my negative thoughts. After a few sessions with Hayden, it became apparent that his approach is one of foreword thinking.

Hayden is very adept at making you look at traumatic times in your life in a different light and breaking through limiting beliefs about yourself. He is a personable, high-energy professional and his methods truly changed my life. Cheers

Karl R.
Senior Manager, USA

“I’ve seen a range of different counsellors and psychologists… with Hayden I would feel better immediately!”

Hayden is amazing! Over the years I have seen a range of different counsellors and psychologists. In comparison to the others, I would feel better immediately better rather than crying afterwards.

He also helped me to clarify my goals and direction in life. I highly recommend Hayden, he’s fantastic!

Georgia C.
Teacher, Auckland

“Seeing Hayden was the best investment I’ve made in a very long time!”

I’d seen therapists in the past, but they weren’t really changing my trigger points and negative thought patterns. Hayden’s approach was different and provided the opportunity to redefine and let go of past trauma from a more empowering perspective.

That was life changing, however, the true game-changer was gaining clarity in my highest values. It’s this framework that has guided me to set real goals that align with my values, resulting in an exponential improvement in my life.

Nicole T.
Travel Advisor, Nelson

“He tells it like it is, and that’s why the changes stick.”

Working with Hayden has impacted every area of my life. I can now self-regulate and stay balanced even without ongoing sessions.

Hayden’s root-cause approach is direct, and he doesn’t sugarcoat it. I’ve worked with other therapists, but Hayden’s approach is different and he gives you tools you can use for life.

Deanna Y.
Business Owner

“I now have a plan, goals, and the tools to live by what drives me!”

I found myself stuck in a place where I saw no real sense of direction with my life and needed some help to get back on track. I found Hayden’s website and saw his testimonials and TV interviews and thought – this is the guy that will go above and beyond to help me.

I am now so happy I spent that night trolling google, searching for an answer and finding Hayden. Over 10 sessions Hayden helped me to figure out what I value most in life and how I can be the best person for myself and everyone around me. I have a plan, I have goals, and I now have the tools to live by what drives me.

Jordan M.
Mortgage Broker, Wellington

“More fulfilling work, and relationship with my partner”

Working with Hayden has been instrumental in my development as a business leader. Hayden helped me create a plan to reshape my life, both personally and professionally.

We uncovered the limiting beliefs and reasons behind the behaviours holding me back, and working through these allowed me to move forward with more clarity and purpose. I’ve also learned to understand myself in ways I never thought possible, leading to more fulfilling work and relationship with my partner.

I would highly recommend Hayden to anyone looking to unlock their potential or become the best version of themselves.

Paul Reid, Actor and Investor
“New Zealand’s Most Prolific Property Investor”

“Hayden can cut through a muddle of thinking to help you see the bigger picture!”

Hayden tells it to you straight, and with no dwelling on the past for too long…He brings you to a point through a series of questions, that unravel your past behaviours, beliefs and how they’re keeping you stuck. If you’re willing to bring your story to Hayden, he will guide you to a breakthrough.

Susan B.
Mother, Sydney

“Hayden saved my marriage”

I knew I needed to change, but I didn’t know how or where to even begin. I put myself under constant pressure and without realising it, I was sabotaging my relationship and what actually mattered most.

Hayden helped me finally deal with and let go of the past experiences and emotions that were affecting me and my emotional responses in my relationship.

Thanks to Hayden I can now pause and reflect instead of responding emotionally. The difference it’s made in my life is huge, I now feel in control of my actions and how I show up for my family and business.

Peter M.
CFO, Sydney

Wish I’d found Hayden 10 years ago… Thank you for giving me my life back!”

I’d tried counsellors, a clinical psychologist, and self-development books, and although improvement came from these, my core emotional reactions and triggers still controlled my behaviour in my relationship.

Now, for the first time, I finally have ability to flip that control. Wish I’d found Hayden 10 years ago. Thank you for giving me my life back!

Lee G.
IT Professional, Nelson

“Resolved the underlying web that kept me stuck in exhausting loops in my relationships”

I came to Hayden because I was stuck in a painful relationship. Hayden helped me find answers to my recurring relationship problems, initiating profound changes across multiple areas of my life.

The clear structure of the six sessions helped me to uncover the narrative in my head that was keeping me stuck. We were then able to resolve the underlying web that was keeping me in exhausting loops. Hayden asks challenging questions but presents real solutions. It was an empowering experience that created lasting change for me.

Julja V.
Artist, Auckland

“More confident in expressing myself and communicating my needs”

I highly recommend Hayden’s 6-week program. I now know myself better than ever before.
I feel more confident expressing myself and showing different sides of myself to others and in my relationship. I feel less self-doubt and now have a plan to pursue the things I really love!

Mandy O.
Business Owner, USA

“Past breakup left me feeling broken. Hayden helped me to let go of the past, smile and move on.”

I was seeing Hayden because of a relationship breakup that left me feeling broken. I stumbled across Hayden on Google and that was the beginning of finding out that “I’m ok.”

My life felt like it was literally ending, now I have purpose again and am doing more in life than ever before. My inner strength and confidence have returned. Hayden gave me the tools to let go of the past, smile and move on. Thanks for everything Hayden.

Jason K.
Lawyer, Auckland

“Hayden’s approach was more effective in addressing the core of my issues, and leading to real changes”

Hayden wanted to get to the ‘why’ rather than just talk about my problems like others have done.

Past experiences that I hadn’t even considered were highlighted, and we explored them to uncover why they were affecting me. I gained a far better understanding of my reactions, along strategies to avoid being triggered by them. This resulted in a calmer, more intentional way of living and enjoying my life.

I highly recommend it to anyone who wants to make genuine changes in their life.

Raymond F.
Manager, Sydney

“I had a breakthrough! Something I never accomplished this with standard talking therapy”

I was interested in Hayden’s approach because I wanted to delve into the unconscious beliefs and self-doubt I was carrying about myself, and how they were both affecting my emotional responses.

Since working with Hayden, I have opened myself up to new and exciting opportunities. I never accomplished this with standard counselling or EMDR therapy.

Claire W.
Creative Director, Nelson

“Hayden taught me how to overcome my anxiety”

Having had previous counselling experience to deal with my past, Hayden’s approach was the breath of fresh air I needed.

Hayden taught me how to overcome my anxiety, and we identified the subconscious pain points affecting my emotional reactions. He gave me the tools to understand why I felt the way I did and how to get out of my own head. Thanks Hayden, money well spent.

Matt B.
Business Owner, USA

“I felt the difference immediately!”

I am so glad that I decided to work with Hayden. Not only was I able to talk to him without judgement, but I felt the difference from our sessions immediately.

After only one session I came away with great tools that I was able to apply to many aspects of my life. After a few sessions I felt a real change in my thought patterns and self-worth, helping me show up better in my relationship.

Since seeing Hayden I now have a much deeper understanding of my values, life direction and my larger life goals. I highly recommend Hayden’s 6-week program.

Hannah J.
Mother, Auckland

“Everything has become clearer, and I’ve rediscovered my purpose”

BOOM, I’m back! I reached out to Hayden after feeling flat, unmotivated, and frustrated. I was struggling to rekindle the drive and passion needed for both my existing and new businesses. It was time to refocus my business direction.

Over the last 25 years, I’ve engaged in extensive self-development work that has been invaluable while building several businesses and a young family. However, this time, I found myself at a loss for answers and in need of direction.

The answers were unexpected, yet they provided the clarity I needed. Everything has become much clearer in both my personal and professional life, and I’ve rediscovered that elusive spark and purpose. Thank you, Hayden.

Steve Tucker
Entrepreneur, Father, Auckland

“Working with Hayden has been instrumental in my development as a business leader”

Working with Hayden has been instrumental in my development as a business leader. Hayden helped me create a plan to reshape my life, both personally and professionally.

We uncovered the limiting beliefs and reasons behind the behaviours holding me back, and working through these allowed me to move forward with more clarity and purpose. I’ve also learned to understand myself in ways I never thought possible, leading to more fulfilling work and relationship with my partner.

I would highly recommend Hayden to anyone looking to unlock their potential or become the best version of themselves.

Paul Reid, Actor and Investor
“New Zealand’s Most Prolific Property Investor”

“I tried psychologists, and they were not able to dig deep enough. You need to talk to Hayden”

I already had a business coach, however, I knew to reach my goals it was going to be just as much about my behaviours and how I dealt with the internal noise.

I had tried psychologists and they were not able to dig deep enough to address the longer-term patterns, they were more interested in just talking about the issues happening that day.

Hayden has the ability to go deep into the mind and transitions you across from the behaviours piece of the puzzle to the key areas of your life you are wanting to change. If you are wanting to achieve an ambitious goal you need to use Hayden!

Peter Turner
CFO, UK

“Working with Hayden was one of the best decisions I’ve made”

We dug deep into my values, motivations, and internal compass – both as a person and as a professional. That work still guides me to this day, even a few years later.

Hayden’s one of the best listeners I’ve ever met. He helps you create space to zero in on what matters, and keeps you honest. It didn’t feel like “coaching” in the traditional sense. It felt like finally having someone who could help make sense of the noise, and bring the important stuff into focus.

I can’t recommend him highly enough. If you’re reading this and thinking about working with him – just do it.

Rees V.
Entrepreneur. Auckland

“Hayden helped me overcome deep issues that were holding me back from realising my potential”

If you want to push personal self-imposed and unnecessary boundaries, I highly recommend you work with Hayden.
He helped me realise that my self-doubt and emotional issues were little more than a legacy pattern from family history and could be remedied if I was prepared to do the inner work required.

Thanks again Hayden!

Andrew T.
Investor, Sydney